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Easy Ways For Dads to Bond With Kids

As a dad, you may find it a bit of a challenge to bond with your children. Whether you’re a stay-at-home dad or a working man, it’s important to carve out time to connect with your child on a personal level. You can bond with your kids through simple ways, so read on to find out how:  

Cook with them 

When cooking healthy food is something you enjoy doing for your family, you’re already on the right track. To instill the importance of eating healthy in your children, have them sit in the kitchen with you and watch while you cook. You can even let your child tag along while you go grocery shopping and show them how you pick out your ingredients. Make black bean burgers that everyone can enjoy. Have them help to measure out the amount of each ingredient you need so that they can have a hands on experience.  

Help with homework 

When your kids get home from school, it’s very easy to get lost in the chaos of getting dinner ready while they do homework. Instead, make this a time where you can be together. Sit down at the kitchen table and ask your child what they’ve learned about in school that day and offer to help. Even if they don’t necessarily need help with completing their homework, they can explain what they’re doing and you can provide tips.   

Watch a movie 

After a long day (or a long week), you and your family might just need a break. You can have a relaxing night at home together, enjoying each other’s company. Choose from a selection of family Christian movies and sit back and watch before heading to bed on a given night. You can make this a weekly occurrence or just something you enjoy together on a family night. Even if you don’t talk throughout the movie, you’re still finding little ways to bond with your kids by just spending time together.   

Let them help with chores 

Instead of going off to complete your chores alone, invite your kids along. Let them assist while you wash the car by layering on the suds or washing it off with water. If you’re fixing something around the house, show them what you’re doing and let them be your little helper. While you may just consider your work around the house a chore, they will likely enjoy spending the time with you and find interest in learning something new.  

Read to them before bed 

A great way to connect with your children is to start and end your days by making time for them. When they get into bed, take a few minutes to lay with them and read a story. You can read free bedtime stories that they’ll enjoy, but most of all they’ll cherish those few minutes before bed when they get to hear your voice and be close to you.

Taking Care of Your Health as a Dad

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In this article, we’re going to look at a number of factors that are relevant to taking care of your health as a dad, particularly as you get older.  

Men’s health is different to that of women’s health, and men suffer from a variety of issues women don’t – for instance, male pattern baldness is something some men are genetically predisposed to, and whilst it is relatively common in society it is something that can still cause much trauma to the ego of many men.

Similarly, there are issues such as hearing loss and eyesight issues that affect both genders, and of course diseases such as diabetes, heart disease and stroke are also common in both genders.  There are specific formulations of vitamin supplements that are known to be good for men, though in the majority of cases, common sense and stable health practices such as ensuring plenty of hydration and reducing fat in your diet.

In this article, we’re going to look at some of the core prophylactic measures you can take to ensure you have optimum health as you grow older.  Of course, there are remedial devices such as how a pair of glasses can help correct eyesight deterioration and a hearing enhancer can amplify sound to make it easier to hear… but, prevention is often better than cure, and so in that spirit let’s take a look at some of the aspects of your health you might want to consider taking better care of.

1. DIET

What you eat you become.  We’ve all heard this phrase, time and time again, yet we still manage to stuff our faces with food that isn’t good for us.  The reason for this is that many people are emotional eaters, meaning they eat to derive pleasure and celebrate or derive comfort and commiserate.

The challenge with this approach to food, however, is that it’s being used as a “drug” rather than a fuel, and in that sense, we aren’t always making the wisest choices for our health – as we are placacting our emotional urges rather than physiological needs.

Consider the food you eat to be like a bank account, in that there are certain things that are “deposits” (e.g. a healthy meal) and there are also withdrawals (e.g. a greasy doughnut that clogs your arteries).  This way, you can simply keep track of whether you’re starting to get overdrawn.

2. HYDRATION

Again, we all know that the body (and particularly the brain) is made up mostly of water, yet we often live in a perpetual state of chronic dehydration.  This causes headaches, low mood, stress and aches and pains throughout all our muscles.  

The simplest solution to improving your health is found in the process of drinking more water.  The more water you drink, within reason, the healthier you will become. There are many scientific reasons for this, but in a nutshell, you just need to make sure you are drinking a LOT of water in order to stay in optimum health.

3. CARDIOVASCULAR FITNESS

In addition to diet, fitness that raises your heartbeat is a good preventative factor when it comes to fending off heart disease.  Now, if you are in a state of poor health the last thing you want to do is start going to the gym and engaging in extremely intense sport, as this is likely to do more harm than good.  

The trick is to start off slow, and build up gradually, to ensure you are maintaining a healthy heart.  Using a heart rate monitor can be helpful to assess where your heart rate is within a class, and ensure it remains within a safe zone.

4. FLEXIBILITY

Something a lot of guys focus on, when it comes to being fit is building their muscles so that they “look good”, yet this can sometimes be at the detriment to health in longevity.  For instance, if you overwork your chest muscles without focusing on your upper back, you are likely to become hunched over which can cause postural problems down the line.

Flexibility is more important than strength when it comes to functional fitness, so getting yourself to a yoga class, or simply following along on YouTube makes a lot of sense to ease common complaints such as back pain.

5. STRESS

Stress is known as one of the biggest killers, in the sense that it’s often the underlying cause for physiological changes in the body that lead to disease.  There’s an idea that the mind controls the body and in that sense, you want to remember that your physical health is directly linked to your mental health. Always take note of your mental health and ensure to seek help if necessary. There are plenty of products out there that can help with stress, from chamomile teas to a list of full spectrum oils. You can also reach out to a doctor, therapist, support groups, helplines, friends and family if you are struggling. Remember, you are never alone!

Dad Dilemmas: How to Respond When Kids are Causing Chaos!

Becoming a parent is one of the most wonderful things that can happen to you in your adult life. Starting a family and having a little person to nurture and teach can show you a side of yourself you didn’t know existed and as well as helping them to develop and grow, you’re actually doing the same for yourself. However, parenting can be hard. It’s not all a walk in the park and some days will be tough, after all, we’re all human and such responsibility and pressure to get it right can mean your head is all over the place some days. When your kids are playing up and causing chaos, here are a few of the ways you can ensure you’re staying calm and setting the best example.

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Try and get enough sleep

Of course, this is easier said than done when you have children as well as work. However if you and your partner both work together, there are ways you can make things smoother for you both. Perhaps you could have a day each weekend where one of you takes responsibility for the children and lets the other sleep uninterrupted. If you have close friends or family that offer to babysit for you overnight, use the opportunity to catch up on your sleep. This can help you to catch up on any sleep deficit you’re accumulating during the week and can massively improve your mood. When you’re tired, everything feels like a bigger deal than it is- and kids causing chaos can be even more stressful. Even one day a week to sleep as much as you want can make a difference to how you feel and react during the day, and so if you’re in a position to do this then it’s something to consider.

Give yourself a short break

The days are incredibly long when you’re up early and in bed late. If your kids have had the kind of day where they won’t let up with bad behavior or arguing (which does happen at times!) one way to respond is to give yourself a short break. Ask your partner to take over for a few minutes while you sit down and clear your head. You could take a shower, you could lose yourself in an app like Final Fantasy XV for a while, you could mediate or just have a tea or coffee in the garden away from the noise. Breathe, relax and remind yourself that you’re lucky to have everything you do- even though it might not feel like it in the midst of the chaos! One day your home will be an empty nest and you’ll do anything to have these times back.

Get help with their behavior

In most cases, kids playing up and causing chaos will just be regular child behavior. It’s normal to be full of energy and it’s perfectly normal to argue with siblings, be noisy and generally make a mess! However, if your child’s behavior is especially bad, and you’ve tried different forms of discipline without success then it could be worth seeking professional advice. Try and keep a diary of their behavior with details of what caused any tantrums or outbursts or the way they responded to discipline. This can be helpful when you speak to your doctor.