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How To Get Ready For A Special Occasion

Whether it’s a wedding, a party, a job interview, or any other kind of special – or simply out of the ordinary – occasion, you’re going to have to spend a little more time getting ready for it than you would if you were going to a friend’s house or heading to the shops. Most people use the opportunity of going to a special occasion to dress up and go to town on their look, but this is not the only consideration to make. Read on for some useful tips on how to get ready for a special occasion so you won’t be stressed and can enjoy not just the occasion itself, but everything leading up to it. 

People holding champagne glasses for a cheers, celebration, party, celebrating

Photo by cottonbro studio

Plan Ahead 

One of the most important things you can do when it comes to getting ready for a special occasion is to plan ahead as much as you can. If you wait until the last minute to get everything ready, to find an outfit, and to make travel arrangements, you’ll not only be stressed by the time you arrive, but you may not make it there at all. 

What would happen if the outfit you thought you might wear doesn’t fit or is dirty? What would happen if there were no cabs or the train times didn’t work out? It is far better to plan ahead and ensure you have all your arrangements in place so that you can just follow your plan and get to your special occasion with ease. 

Choose The Right Outfit

We briefly mentioned your outfit in the point above, and it is an absolutely vital factor to get right when you are getting ready for a special occasion. You need to look and feel good, and the outfit has to match the tone of whatever it is you’re doing. What you might wear as a guest at a wedding would probably be different from what you might wear for a job interview, for example. 

Consider what you are doing, the time of year (and therefore the weather and temperature), and how comfortable you want or need to be in whatever it is you’re wearing. It might be that you can wear something you already own, and if that’s the case, you might want to have it dry cleaned and ensure that it still looks and feels right on you. You might want to buy something new, in which case you’ll need to think about your budget and give yourself enough time to go to the shops or have the clothes delivered. 

Your outfit is what will make you feel good, so it’s the most important element of your ensemble to consider. However, there are other things to think about as well. 

Have A Makeover 

Whether or not you have a makeover will really depend on your own preferences and also the kind of special occasion you are going to, but it can be a lot of fun, and it will add to the feeling of enjoyment you’ll get overall. 

Some of the things you could include in this makeover (which can be de-stressing and ideal for some self-care time) would be teeth whitening, a haircut and maybe a color, a manicure, and pedicure, and perhaps some skin treatments like Botox or microneedling. If you’re in the area, search for a facial near me in Cherry Hill, NJ and make sure you get booked before your special occasion.

The one thing to remember about your makeover is that you should try to book it (or the separate elements) a little way in advance of the event, and certainly not the day of whatever it is you’re going to do. You’ll need time for your new hair colour to settle, and you’ll want to make sure your skin treatments haven’t caused any allergic reactions. Think about your timetable and try to leave at least two or three days in between having things done and going to the event itself. 

Get Enough Sleep 

If you are excited, nervous, or anxious about a special event – or any combination of these things – you’ll find that it can be difficult to sleep the night before, or perhaps a few nights leading up to the event. The problem is that this can make you feel even more nervous or anxious, and it will certainly mean you’re not able to focus on the event. This could mean that all that excitement you had will come to nothing because you can’t enjoy the moment due to lack of sleep. 
If you’re finding it hard to sleep, there are some things you can try that might help you. A warm, milky drink can be ideal, and using lavender or chamomile essential oils in a bath or on your pillow is also something that people like to do. Make sure there are no screens in your room and that it is as dark as possible, and this will also help.

Anxiety: A Comprehensive Guide

Anxiety is a common experience that we all go through at some point in our lives. It is a feeling of unease, worry, or fear a certain situation can trigger that thought or feeling. However, for some people, anxiety can become overwhelming and begin to affect their daily life. If you are one of those people who feel like anxiety is controlling your life, then this comprehensive guide is for you.

To understand anxiety, we need to know what it is and what triggers it. Anxiety is the body’s natural response to danger or perceived threat. It is a normal emotion that helps us survive by keeping us alert and aware. But sometimes anxiety can become excessive, leading to an anxiety disorder. This disorder can result in the manifestation of physical symptoms like sweating, increased heart rate, and headaches. These symptoms can be triggered by a variety of factors, including work, school, relationships, or other external factors.

Here are some of the different types of anxiety disorders you may be struggling with:

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is a mental health condition characterized by persistent and excessive worry about a variety of events or activities, along with physical symptoms such as restlessness, muscle tension, and fatigue. GAD can interfere with daily activities and can be treated with therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

Panic Disorder

Panic Disorder is a mental health condition characterized by sudden and unexpected panic attacks, which are intense periods of fear or discomfort that may be accompanied by physical symptoms such as chest pain, sweating, or trembling. Panic Disorder can be treated with therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD)

Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) is a mental health condition characterized by a persistent fear of social situations or performance situations where embarrassment or humiliation may occur, leading to avoidance of those situations and impaired functioning. SAD can be treated with therapy, medication, or a combination of both. In many circumstances, learning to manage your anxiety can involve professional help, personal therapy, and practices such as meditation and exercise. Including techniques such as CBT and gradual exposure to social situations can be highly effective.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by persistent and intrusive thoughts or images (obsessions) that cause anxiety, along with repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions) aimed at reducing that anxiety. OCD can interfere with daily activities and can be treated with therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that can develop after a person experiences or witnesses a traumatic event, causing symptoms such as intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, nightmares, avoidance of triggers, and changes in mood or behavior. PTSD can be treated with therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

Anxiety is a complex issue, but some simple tips can help manage it.

Here are ten tips for managing your anxiety:

Practice mindfulness meditation for at least ten minutes a day to enhance relaxation.

Learn breathing techniques (like deep breathing) to encourage relaxation.

Get adequate sleep every night and maintain a sleep schedule.

Avoid caffeine, sugar, and processed foods as they make anxiety worse.

Get regular exercise; even low-impact exercise like walking or yoga can help.

Seek help from a mental health professional if anxiety persists.

Engage in activities that make you happy and reduce stress.

Plan your daily activities in advance and avoid last-minute changes to your schedule.

Seek social support from trusted friends or family members.

Be kind to yourself and avoid negative self-talk.

Anxiety is a common problem that affects many of us. However, it is crucial to realize when anxiety is beginning to control your life and seek help. Remember, self-care is essential and can make a significant difference in your overall quality of life. By using the techniques discussed in this guide, you’ll be better equipped to manage your anxiety effectively. Remember, you are not alone. With work, patience, and determination, you can overcome your anxiety and live a fulfilling life.

Raheem’s Adventures: Fun and Educational Children’s Books

The following 3 books by the author, Jawad, have been written with a fun and educational spirit. Jawad was kind enough to share details on each of his books below, please read on to learn more about them.

Raheem and his Magic Shoes:

This Book shares two of my passions, which are basketball and a story that has a meaningful message. The book is aimed at children ages 3 to 8 and currently is on Amazon.ca’s top 100 basketball books for children. The book is available at locations for the Toronto public library, Milton public library, and Mississauga central library.

Book Blurb:

Dribble right then dribbles left. He dribbles past his opponents. He takes a jump shot and … swisssssh!  Raheem loves to play basketball and is eager to make the team, but he believes the only way he can make it is with his magical shoes. Will the shoes work? Raheem will try anything! “Raheem and his Magic shoes” is the inspiring story of Raheem and his quest to make the basketball team. This fully illustrated book tells the story of a young boy who believes he isn’t good enough without his special kicks to make the team.
https://www.amazon.ca/dp/168902514X

Raheem the Superhero:

This fun read was inspired by my little nephew who loves superheroes and his willingness to help others in need.  

Book Blurb:

Incredible strength, lightning speed, x-ray vision, and the ability to fly are just some of Raheem’s favorite superhero abilities! Every superhero needs them, right? You can’t save the day without them? Right???? That’s what makes a SUPERHERO a superhero, rightttttt? Raheem seems to think so.

From the author of “Raheem and his Magic Shoes,” comes a story about Raheem’s wish for superhero powers so he can help save the day.  This book helps empower kids, with the understanding that they have their own special powers and shares a meaningful message, that parents and children will enjoy.
https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B08CP92PPL

Raheem the Referee:

As a basketball referee, I wanted to share another side of the sport I enjoy very much.  This book is like a beginner’s guide to basketball officiating. 

https://a.co/d/8dw7cPD

Book Blurb:

Foul! On blue, I mean, yellow…wait, was it a foul?

Being a basketball referee isn’t quite as easy as it looks. You have to make quick decisions that require swift action. Why would anyone want to be a referee? Raheem does, and he wants you to join him!

Breaking the rules is not RIGHT and Raheem wants everyone to play fair. So come along and let’s learn how referees enforce the rules of the game.

BIO:

Jawad is a husband, father, basketball coach, and referee. When he isn’t balling, he is a techie and children’s author. His other works include ‘Raheem and his Magic Shoes’. A tale that has captured the hearts of many young children across the globe. Also, “Raheem the Superhero,” is a story that shows we don’t need superpowers to be real heroes. Once, in his past life, he wrote for a men’s fashion blog.

As a son of immigrant parents, Jawad was taught to appreciate literature and value family at a young age. He draws inspiration from his love for his family, his imaginative mind, and his love for storytelling.

Jawad Tariq currently lives in Oakville, Ontario.