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Resourceful Mini-Workouts for Time Pressed Stay at Home Dads

As stay-at-home dads, many of us strive to squeeze in time to get our heart rates up with our favorite workouts. While during certain weeks, our schedules may, in fact, permit time to fit in our ideal workout, this is only sometimes the case. As our days get squeezed by the demands of our kiddos and never-ending domestic responsibilities, it is tough to consistently find the time to enjoy our optimum workout regime, whether a two-hour ride, swim, or gym session.

The schedule and intentions we set for ourselves at the start of the week need to consider the often erratic nature of looking after youngsters, whose demands can significantly fluctuate at a moment’s notice. If we don’t take into account the unpredictability of caring for our youngsters, we set ourselves up for frustration when our coveted ‘me time’ gets taken away. And if our ‘me time’ is our exercise, our frustration can escalate into irritable behavior, negatively impacting the vibes in our household. In my case, missing just one or two days of intense physical activity can significantly impact my mood. Therefore, I do what I can to be resourceful. When I can’t find the time to go for an hour or two-hour gym session or bike ride, I become innovative and find shorter time increments to exercise while looking after the kids.

What is important for us to recognize is that our exercise regimes don’t always need to be perfect or that lengthy. When time is tight, and we are faced with a full day with the kids, we need not despair. Instead, we can choose to adopt a resourceful mindset by looking for fun and efficient ways to fit in our exercise while keeping the kids engaged. Hey, who said that guys can’t multi-task anyway?

While I’m sure many of you are already well aware of the health benefits of shorter, more intense exercise increments, I thought I would reiterate the significant health impacts these ‘quick hit’ sessions offer. An increasing number of health studies have demonstrated that even twenty minutes of medium to high-intensity exercise can help improve cardiovascular health, strength, and overall well-being. According to Stephen J. Carter, a cardiovascular physiologist at the Indiana University Bloomington School of Public Health, shorter, more intense workouts can be more advantageous for our health than longer, less intense physical activity. Carter states that, among other health benefits, these ‘quick hit’ workouts help reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease and lower mortality rates. So, with increasing studies backing their effectiveness, why wouldn’t we incorporate these time efficient high impact exercise sessions into our weekly routines, especially when our little ones demand so much of our time?

So, the next step is strategizing how we can implement these mini-workouts amidst our never-ending childcare responsibilities. Following are some examples of resourceful mini-exercise sessions I have been able to implement with my kids on several occasions that I’m sure most of you can fit in as well. Keep in mind that the ideas presented below will need to be adapted based on the developmental stage of your kiddos.

At the Playground:

Between pushing them on the swing or chasing them around the playground, do some natural bodyweight exercises like chin-ups, dips, push-ups, and lunges. Feel free to give them a good push on the swing or help them onto the slide and then fit in a quick set. You can even jog to and from the kiddos when needed in between sets. As an alternative to box jumps, try some park bench jumps. They are awesome for leg strengthening and jacking up the heart rate. Spinning them on the merry-go-round can be a tremendous oblique strengthening exercise. Don’t worry what the other parents think! They will likely be impressed and perhaps even inspired to do the same at some point.

Jogging while they Bike or Stride:

If they love to bike, jog with them. Understand that the jog may not be at a steady pace, but even if you have to stop now and then to pick them up off the pavement after they crash, it will still get your blood flowing and boost your endorphins.

At the Park:

Play some games of tag or do some fun races (running, hopping, bear crawling, or otherwise). Grab a soccer ball, baseball, or frisbee and sprint between kicking and throwing. Give them a head start while you sprint with them to get the ball.

In the Snow or on the Ice:

If you live in a snowy winter climate or have access to an ice rink, put a leash or rope around your waist and do running intervals by pulling them on a sled or skating rink. My kids love this, and it is a fantastic way to ensure an intense workout while they experience some good fun.

In and Around the House:

If your kids love to be taken on daddy horsey rides and you’ve got the strength for it, get them to sit on your back while crawling around the house and doing push-ups. For the legs, get them to hop on your back while doing squats or lunges. Body weight squat holds are fantastic for quad strength and mental fortitude. Have them count reps and seconds while you feel the burn! Airplane rides can also work the quads as well as stabilizers. Have fun with it!

For those with equipment at home, do circuit training with your kids. They will enjoy the creativity of coming up with their own fun exercises.

On the Trampoline:

If you have access to a trampoline, get on it and bounce with them. Kids love being double-bounced, but be careful not to launch them into your neighbor’s yard. You will be surprised at how much of a workout some good old-fashioned bouncing can provide. The quads and abs will be feeling it for sure.

Of course, you must ensure that these ideas are implemented safely and consider your children’s developmental stage. However, most of them can be adapted to best suit a range of ages. Each of these will also provide a legitimate increase in heart rate, in turn providing the health benefits our bodies need.

So, when you encounter a domestic turn of events and realize that your optimum workout may not happen, feel free to incorporate some of these mini-exercise regimens with your kiddos. Not only will you be gaining valuable health benefits yourself, but you will also model the importance of physical activity for your kids. Just remember to engage your resourceful mindset and have some fun!

I would also love to hear some of your creative mini-workout ideas, so please share them in the comments below.

Resources:

https://journals.lww.com/acsm-msse/pages/articleviewer.aspx?year=2021&issue=03000&article =00012&type=Fulltext

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/11/08/well/move/full-body-workout-20-minutes.html

What Toyota Model Is Best for Families?

When you have kids, much less a whole family, the most important thing to you is their safety. Part of proper safety is getting a family-friendly vehicle, one that you can be confident will keep you and your loved ones out of harm’s way in the event of a vehicular collision.

Toyotas are said to be one of the best vehicles in terms of their longevity. However, they’re also great in the safety department as well. Below are some of the best Toyota models for families.

1. Toyota Highlander

Spacious but not too large, the Toyota Highlander is an easy-to-drive family-friendly vehicle. It offers a spacious backseat, a decent-sized trunk, and has advanced technology as a bonus. Enjoy its lane departure alert, automatic high beams, radar cruise control, and lane tracing assist.

Due to the size and comfort of this SUV, you can do just about anything with it, from heading to the grocery store, driving to work, or even taking the whole family on a trip.

2. Toyota Sequoia

If you’re wanting a more masculine-looking vehicle than the Toyota Highlander, the Toyota Sequoia might be the right fit for you. Some of its top safety features include lane department alert, pedestrian detection, a pre-collision system, automatic high beams, and dynamic radar cruise control.

Apart from being phenomenal in the safety department, the Toyota Sequoia makes for the perfect vehicle for family trips, thanks to its ability to tow trailers, boats, you name it.

3. Toyota RAV4

The Toyota RAV4 is a great option if you’re looking for a family vehicle with great fuel economy, a smooth drive, and the ability to drive on different terrains. Consider this vehicle if you drive long distances, plan to travel frequently, or live in an area with high gas prices.

Safety features of the Toyota RAV4 include precollision system, dynamic radar cruise control, automatic high beams, and lane tracing assist, among others. You can count on the RAV4 to be a great vehicle to take on trips with the family.

4. Toyota Venza

Expect your Toyota Venza to deliver style, great fuel economy, and high tech. Modern is the best word to describe it. Features great for the whole family include its premium sound system, wireless Apple CarPlay, and Android Auto with voice command.

Safety-wise, enjoy pedestrian detection, steering assist and lane departure alert, road sign assist, and much more. In fact, the Toyota Venza earned the 2022 IIHS Top Safety Pick.

To learn more about family-friendly Toyota options, head on over to your nearest Toyota SLC UT dealership today. Perhaps look at and/or test drive some vehicles to find out which one would be best for your family.

Conclusion

It’s true that not every vehicle is the safest for families, especially young children. But Toyota is here to save the day with their sturdy, long-lasting, and safe vehicles. From the Toyota Highlander to The Toyota RAV4, there are plenty of Toyota models that are safe for the whole family.

Prioritising Your Kids During a Breakup

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Breakups are never ideal. We’d all love to live fairytale lifestyles where we stay with our partners and raise our kids in domestic bliss until they are adults. But this isn’t always the best option. Sometimes, we find that we are simply not compatible with our partners, or that our lifestyles don’t gel. We might find that one person betrays another. We might find that other issues arise. This is common and, nowadays, separation is by now means rare. What’s important to remember is that kids can have just as good an upbringing between two separate parents and this is often much preferable to being in a household that is full of arguments, tension and other issues. It is, however, absolutely essential that you prioritise your kids and their needs during any breakup. It can be tempting to focus on how you feel or how your partner feels, what you want versus what your partner wants. But you need to take care of your kids first and foremost. Here are a few ways that you can achieve this!

Make Clear Child Custody Agreements

The first thing you need to do is to make your child custody agreement clear and official. It’s all good and well having a word of mouth agreement, but then people can fail to stick to their parts without any personal repercussions. Kids need routine and stability and a clear, officially agreed custody agreement can help with this. You may need to take some time to really help yourself with understanding child custody and it’s generally advised that you and your partner work with a specialist lawyer, like Love Family Lawyers, to determine what is best for the kids. This can fall down to various factors such as where each parent is living, where the kids go to school, what each parent’s working hours are and more.

Explaining the Situation

You need to make sure that you and your partner are definitely breaking up. You need to make serious decisions, because back and forth can really confuse kids and make things harder for them. Of course, there could always be a chance of reuniting down the line. But you do need to make sure that your kids aren’t stuck in a whirlwind of you and your partner being together and breaking up constantly. When you break up, you need to tell your kids in a mature way that doesn’t drag the other parent. You need to make sure that you do this in an age appropriate way too. Telling a five year old needs to be approached in a different way to telling a teenager.

Don’t Trash Talk the Other Parent

As we’ve briefly highlight above, you need to make sure that you’re not speaking badly of the other parent to your children. Sure, you may be hurt by them, upset by them and more, but you shouldn’t dump this on your children, who aren’t emotionally mature enough to process it properly. This shouldn’t turn into a game of who can turn the kids against the other.

Hopefully, the steps above should help you on your journey to overcoming your relationship and making sure that your kids are prioritised through the process too!