For many adults, reminiscing about childhood was all about thinking about how carefree life was before adulthood. No responsibilities, no bills, no work, just fun time. While this may be true, it’s also important to realize that the second that many children hit adulthood, they’re just far too overwhelmed with the pressures of being an adult.
That’s why it’s important to start when children are young, teaching them about responsibility, teaching them to tend to their own needs, fitting in, and so much more. Children have a lot of stuff they need to learn about but it can be far too much if they’re only learning as an adult. Resilience is what will help a child become a problem solver and it’s also what is going to help in navigating adulthood. These tips are going to help you raise your children to be resilient and take what life throws at them
Emergencies can come at any time and they can indeed come in many forms as well. This can include teaching them what the urgent care facility is, what an emergency room is, the importance of 911, and how to properly assess a situation. Parents aren’t always going to be there for their children when an emergency strikes. While it’s true they need to learn for themselves, they must be taught the basics so they can stay level-headed during an emergency.
Show how resilient you are
Sometimes, all it takes is showing your child how resilient you are. Children look up to their parents. Even if you lose your cool at times, showing that you’re regaining control of life situations is one way to show your resilience. Nobody is perfect and everyone screws up, even the best parents do. Admitting to your mistakes, admitting to the faults you have, and apologizing when you’re in the wrong shows how mature you are and it also shows that your child needs to learn about this too. These are things that they tend to naturally pick up on.
Allowing your child to make mistakes
You as a parent make mistakes, so it’s okay to let your child make mistakes too. This is going to teach them to improve. This is also going to allow them the opportunity to learn right from wrong and admit themselves to when they make a mistake. Slip-ups happen from time to time and they will usually learn the consequences of their actions. A couple of great ways to teach them about mistakes and cause and effect would be through playing video games with your child or even board games.
Don’t be a helicopter
As a parent, it’s going to be difficult to not want to huddle and watch over them. This is very natural to do, but it honestly does far more harm than it does good. It’s important to be helpful towards your child but you also have to give them the freedom to make their own decisions. This is going to be the way to teach your children about limits and let them know that at times they need to limit themselves.
If you are one of the people who have just or recently been diagnosed with cancer, it must be tough to not feel overwhelmed. There are so many things that hit you at once, fear of death, feeling of mortality, grief for loved ones, fear of dying slowly, and much more. With all of these things, it can be quite hard to choose your treatment method. It is especially hard to deal with it when your kids are diagnosed with cancer. It can be quite tough, which is why we have curated a list of steps to help guide you in taking charge of your treatment method.
Figure out your ground rules
Before you start researching and exploring, it is important to establish some ground rules. Decide how much you want to know in detail such as their survival chances, and major details. Some people prefer not knowing these worrying things. You should also try to take the lead in your decision-making process. Work with your doctor to handle these difficult choices. Most importantly, remember to have realistic expectations for all treatments so that you do not get your hopes too high for the end. Accept help from family and friends when you need it.
Figure out a goal
Once you have set ground rules, you should focus on narrowing down your treatment options. There are three major types of goals depending on your cancer stage and type. You can try to cure the disease by attacking it aggressively with chemo and radiation therapy. You can try to control it and make it shrink or slow down. If you have found out that you have cancer during your advanced stage, you should look for comfort care such as hospice and palliative care, something that will make sure you are at ease during your last moments.
Figure out your treatment options
Your doctor might want to take a really aggressive approach to your treatment, or they may want to take a conservative one. This all depends on what they find on your kid’s CT-Scan when they try to figure out the diagnosis. Keep in mind the type of cancer your child is suffering from and see how likely the chosen treatments are to work in their case. It is important to go through a ton of research to properly know your chances with each treatment. You can choose trustworthy websites with the help of your doctor.
Communicate with your healthcare provider
Since you will be visiting the doctor’s office a lot, it is best that you learn to communicate with them. You should speak up when you do not understand anything about the treatment process, no matter how small you may think it is. It is important for you to be at ease about your child’s safety, which is why you should ask a ton of questions. You can even record your conversations so that you do not forget anything important.
Dealing with your child’s cancer is not easy. It will take a lot of strength on your part to get through it. Use this article to help guide you during the decision-making process of your kid’s treatment plan.
Everyone needs confidence from time to time. Unfortunately, it’s a fact that parents are especially susceptible to because of the responsibility they have for their children and the pressure they feel about being good role models. Luckily, there are several ways parents can build up their confidence levels and regain control over their lives again.
Upgrade Your Wardrobe
Everyone needs to shop but buying clothes that flatter you can be challenging. You might feel like everything looks bad on you or that nothing fits well, which is why it’s essential to try out some new tricks now and then. When shopping for yourself, not just any clothing will do; instead, find something to make you look great. If it helps, get your significant other or a friend to help.
It might seem easier said than done, but shopping will be a breeze with these simple tricks.
If you are shopping online, take your measurements beforehand to give you an idea of what size to look for. Don’t go by numbers, though. Instead, get the actual clothing item and try it out yourself. For example, for leather jackets for men, make sure it is the right size. If it’s too tight or uncomfortable, there is no reason why you should buy something just because it is the same number as your usual size.
For example, if you are a size 16, make sure to try out the clothing before buying it. If something is too tight (and gives you fat rolls), don’t buy it just because of the number on its label. You want something that flatters your body and makes you feel comfortable; not stressed about wearing an outfit that doesn’t fit well.
If you are shopping in person, make sure to try on everything. You might not think that something looks good, but sometimes it does. For example, if your style is more straightforward or classic, don’t be afraid to wear different types of clothing even though they may not look like what you would typically choose to put on. Be daring and bold. You might discover something you like.
Change Your Hairstyle
Even if you’re not a teen anymore, it’s still exciting to try out new things. For example, change your hairstyle. You don’t need to go through the entire dyeing and cutting of your hair; opt for simple ways like changing your part, cutting your hair in layers, or getting a new haircut.
Just take out the bobby pins and change where you place them. You can also try using different types like butterfly clips for short hair to make things more interesting. If long locks are not your thing anymore, cut off some layers. It will give your hair volume and make you look like you’ve got a boost of energy. If your hair is too thin or even if it’s slightly wavy, go for straightening treatments to make them look thicker.
Buy an Expensive Equipment
If you are a parent and your child is bored with the usual toys, then it’s time to change things up. Children are always looking for new ways to have fun and experience new sensations. It means that they will be more than happy when you give them an expensive toy or game to keep their attention on you.
If you are not aware of some parents’ needs, you may think they will be satisfied with cheaper toys. But, in this case, buying them a cheap toy or game is not going to cut it for your little ones looking forward to having the best experience ever when playing with their new expensive gift from mom and dad.
Go Out More Without Your Kids
One of the biggest problems with parenting is feeling like you need to be constantly at home. First, you spend a lot of time and money making your kids comfortable; then, it’s easy for them to get used to staying in all day long.
Take them along. Start with one day at a time. Don’t worry about what others might think of you because they are probably in the same situation. One way to help your kids get used to going out is by taking them on trips or errands with you. However, if that’s not possible, let them know when and where you will be going — try having a phone conversation while still sitting at home.
Get Trimmed
It is easy to get self-conscious about your looks. From the time you were a little girl, your mother probably told you that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Because there are so many things out there about beauty that are subjective, it is easy to get caught up in the feeling that you are not attractive enough.
You can work on making yourself feel more comfortable with your looks by trying out tricks to boost your confidence. The first thing is to try different haircuts, colors, and styles until you find one or a few choices that make you happy when looking in the mirror every morning. You don’t have to go to a hair salon and spend money on getting your hair done.
You can try out different looks at home by looking through magazines for inspiration or simply experimenting with what you already have in the house, like toothbrushes, combs, scissors, and spray bottles. The next confidence booster is shopping for clothes that make you feel good about yourself instead of fitting into a specific clothing size.
You can do this yourself or ask for help from someone who knows how you like to dress and what works best for your body types, such as friends and family members. Another way is by wearing clothes that make you feel like a rock star, such as high heels. Just make sure not to wear them daily and become reliant on wearing these shoes to be confident with how you look because the goal is to take time out of your day and feel good about yourself.
Spend More Time Doing What You Love
It’s a well-known fact that you should spend more time doing what you love. But it is not always easy to do so. You have your friends and families asking you for help, schoolwork piling up in front of you, and deadlines left, right and center. Still, this doesn’t mean you should give up on what you love.
Conclusion
Many things can make parents feel insecure, but there are also many options to boost their self-confidence. Parents can feel better about themselves by taking a few simple steps before getting started with their children’s lives, and even after they have been living for some time as parents.
An at-home dad on a mission to keep it real when it comes to food, fun, and raising a healthy, happy family.
