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Looking After Your New Baby After Birth

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Looking after a newborn is hard work. There is a lot going on, and if you thought that pregnancy was tough, you’re in for a real shock when the baby comes along. Whether you’re going to be a single dad or you have your partner, you have got to be willing to put in the work to really be there for this child. In this article, we’re going to be taking a look at some of the things that you need to know about looking after a newborn, so keep reading down below if you would like to find out more.

Learn Their Cries

You need to learn their cries for your own sake, and for theirs. You might think that all babies’ cries sound the same, but this is absolutely not true. There are subtle little differences that let you know the difference in meaning as they are not able to communicate with words. After a little while you will be able to tell whether your child is hungry, sleepy, needs a diaper change or is just bored. 

It’s essential that you understand that sometimes babies just cry. It’s a new environment for them, it’s different to what they are used to and that can be tough. You just need to learn what the cries mean, and if there is nothing wrong, do everything you can to calm them down.

If Something Is Wrong

If something is not quite right with your baby, then we recommend you take them to see a doctor as soon as you can. While it might seem as though you are panicking over the little things, if you are concerned then you need to take them to see a medical professional. It is always better to be safe than sorry when it comes to children. You can get them checked 100 times if you feel it’s necessary, because you always want to be on the safe side.

If something is wrong and it’s something that you believe happened because of the doctor or medical staff, then you can look at getting an experienced HIE lawyer or a specialist in whatever is happening. Do not stay quiet if a medical professional has messed up.

Try To Keep Calm

It’s hard to be a new parent. It’s hard to adjust to the new routine for you, the lack of sleep, the constant cuddles and while it’s the best feeling in the world, there are times where it can feel like you have a huge weight on your shoulders. There are even times where you feel like you’re going to scream just to get it all out, but the more worked up you get, the more worked up they get. You have got to try to stay calm, even when it’s tough.

We hope that you have found this article helpful, and now see some of the things that you are going to need to do when it comes to looking after a new baby. It’s not going to be an easy time, and it is going to take some adjusting, but that little bundle in your arms is worth every second of sleep deprivation that you will experience. We wish you nothing but the best.

Simple Ways to Support Your Pregnant Wife

As a mom of three cute girls, I can tell you that any pregnant woman needs support from her family and especially the husband. Handling cravings is not an easy task. Pregnancy can be delicate as the woman’s body undergoes several changes from experiencing morning sickness to feeling dizzy. That is the reason every woman needs the support of her husband during pregnancy. While fathers may not do everything, there are several ways they can support their wives and help make the pregnancy journey exciting. Check some of the ways my husband supported me during pregnancy below. 

Handling house chores 

House chores are considered the work of women, but do you know many can do them better than women? If your wife is pregnant, this is where you come in and support her during this exciting period. As the pregnancy continues to grow, it may become hard to handle some of the house tasks. Husbands can help in handling some tasks such as mopping, cleaning tubs, and vacuuming may help ease anxiety and stress on the pregnant mom. 

Understanding the wife’s desires 

It can be hard to live in the same house or walk around with a pregnant mom because of her crazy cravings. But the husband should learn to understand their wives. If you have a child, you can attest to this. However, if you thought pregnant ladies do this intentionally, you are wrong. Pregnancy can turn a woman into something else. All of a sudden, she will stop taking her favorite dish or crave for something she never ate before. But that is that is her world. Husbands should avoid asking questions.  

If the wife says she cannot finish her food, do not question her. If she is opposed to drinking yogurt, let her be, do not ask her why. Understand her cravings and avoiding eating the food she is sensitive to when she sees you. It might be when she sees or smells such foods she gets irritated. If you see a horizontal line on her belly, do not ask why and when did the lines nigra appear. 

Pay attention to her 

During my previous pregnancy, I used to talk a lot even when my husband wants to sleep. Well, you might be having a pregnant woman who speaks a lot or is too emotional. It can be disgusting especially if your wife was always jovial and now gets angry for no reason. You may not know why she is angry, but she has a lot to think of; her unborn child’s health and how long her labor period will be. If she wants to share her fears about the unborn child, as her husband, you need to pay attention to her. This will help her feel comfortable and do away with the anxiety that is unhealthy for the baby.  

Conclusion 

Pregnancy can be challenging but not as such when there is someone offering support in all the ways he can. Pregnant women can sometimes behave like babies and husbands need to pamper them. Show support by taking her out and making her feel loved.

The Best Christmas Present Ever is Our Baby Boy!

The best Christmas Present for 2017, that is. I don’t want our sweet 4 year old girl, Avery stumbling upon this post one day and forever having her feelings hurt. I promise, Avery, you were definitely the best Christmas present ever for 2013. 🙂

I don’t find much time for writing lately, and this one will be short, but I wanted to give an update to my last post about how we are having a boy. Since then, she grew from the 15 weeks pregnant pic in that post….

15 weeks with our baby boy.

…..to 36 weeks pregnant.

And right before hitting the 39 week mark, she gave birth to our boy!

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Hello, World, I’m here!

Going Mom gave birth naturally at an awesome birth center near our home to a handsome little guy named Weston on Sunday, November 19th, 2017. Just 5 days after his big sister’s birthday; talk about close!

People kept telling us the second child comes fast and makes for a quick labor, but my wife and I were both shocked at how fast the entire birth went. Her water broke at home around 7:50 pm and he was born that same night at 10:10 pm. We are forever thankful for having such an amazing midwifes and doula crew who knew how to support us, ensure everyone was safe, and keep calm throughout the process. Thanks to them, we had our boy in our arms, safe and sound to hold and snuggle with.

 

Our friends with 2 or more kids told us going from having a kid, to having kids is different, simply put, and so far that’s holding true. Different as in hard, different as in wonderful, different as in, awesome, different as in….well, you get, it’s a mixed bag of emotions! But I’ll be damned if it’s not the sweetest thing seeing Avery being a proud big sister.

It will take some time to adjust to not getting all of the attention, but overall, I’d say she’s coping fairly well. We get Going Mom at home for the next 4 months since her job has an awesome maternity leave policy, and man do we need it just to get somewhat adjusted to life as a family of four. Besides the crazy sleep schedule and constant diaper changes, I’d say we’re doing just fine though. We even picked out our (real) Christmas tree together and took the obligatory selfie.

We made Wes cut down the tree, that’s why he’s sleeping in the pic.

I’m cutting it short since I need sleep. Once things settle, I’ll try for more details, but until then, keep up to date on my Facebook and Instagram pages if you’d like.

If I don’t post before, have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.