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Planning For The Unexpected On Vacation

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When it comes to bringing your family on vacation, you’re likely absolutely excited above excitement. This is the period you have been dreaming about, especially during those long and drab days in the office. However, of course, this doesn’t mean the entire trip is sure to be a wonderful experience from the beginning to the last moment. There are events and circumstances that pop up in order to impede your plans, and it’s these unexpected occurrences that can throw you through a loop to begin with, and drain your energy a little. Some things you might not be able to fix as they arise, such as aircraft become delayed and your child becoming ill while on vacation.

However, other things you can, with a little preparedness or quick thinking. Here’s how:

Craft A Kit Bag

It’s important to have something on hand to help you respond to the most difficult of
circumstances. A kit bag can serve this purpose. Ideally, it should hold some first aid items,
such as Tegaderm dressing or a form of bandage. It might also be that you bring specific items
with you due to an area you’re hoping to visit. Of course, suncream fits this bill. So does
mosquito repellent. This kit bag should help you out of the expected difficulties you might
experience, and also some of the unexpected. For example, who knows when you might need a Swiss army knife to help you out of a situation? However, almost everyone can agree it’s a good idea to bring one.

Always Have A Plan B

Certain scenarios don’t pan out. Some of them are not how you expected. It might be that you run out of money, or the people you had hoped to attend something with refused to show. This can leave you clutching at straws when it comes to finding a new adventure. For this reason, it always pays to ‘have a plan B.’ What would you like to do if the current day’s endeavors do not pan out? This can not only keep everyone motivated and happy, but it can also prevent you from feeling like you’re ‘settling.’ For example, let’s say your Jet Ski trip was canceled. This
might lead to a day moping around on the beach not doing anything except wondering what Jet Skiing might be like. But if you have a snorkeling gig also booked, you might head to that instead. Planning is everything.

Look Out For One Another

No matter who you are or how your family is composed, when things do not go as expected you will likely be clutching at a means to make them so. This takes effort. It’s best to do this with loving people around you. Support each other. Take care of each other. Sustain one another’s spirits. This can turn a bad vacation into a good one, and a good vacation into an unforgettable one. It might take a little to remember this default attitude, but when you all make an effort to do so, you can feed off of one another’s positive energy. That sounds pretty good to us.

Keeping The Kids Busy This Summer Vacay

The school vacation days can be quite overwhelming for parents, can’t they? Weeks and weeks ahead, with no clue how to keep children of varying ages occupied and happily so. Sometimes, parents don’t get the chance to be out of work with their kids, so it’s up to summer camps and sitters to keep them occupied. The good news though, is that if you’re a parent that is fortunate enough to stay at home and take care of the kids, there is plenty that you can do to keep the kids occupied, happy and fulfilled in the many sunny weeks ahead of you all until you get to the new school year all over again.

What you need is a breakdown of things that you can do to give your kids the summer vacation that they will always remember. With the tips below, you can keep everyone in the family happy without busting your bank account to do it.

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Staying At Home

If you aren’t going to be getting out too much – whether that’s due to the weather or to funds – you need some ideas of what you can do around the home. You can do something nice with the garden to make it an appropriate and fun place to play, and you can use these ideas below for doing things inside.

  • Movie day – everyone grabs a duvet and takes turns choosing a film. You can also have someone nominate a snack, whether that’s flavoured homemade popcorn or rice crispy cereal snacks.
  • Cooking lessons – children don’t just learn at school, they learn with their hands at home as well. Have a few days teaching the kids to make their own recipes and give them total control over what they cook. It’s exciting, messy and they learn something new.
  • Build a den – get as many boxes and materials as possible with the kids and start a den-building competition. You could all be judges and choose to rate each den out of ten, before making one big super den!

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Going Out

You may decide to get out of the house as much as possible during the summer break, which means you are all soaking up the sun and getting a good amount of exercise.

  • Going away – book a vacation away with the kids for a few days if funds allow. You can sort this much earlier in the year so that the cost is spread and doesn’t take you everything that you have in the bank to make it happen.
  • Treasure Hunt – organise a treasure hunt in the back yard or the neighbourhood. You can rope in their friends, too, and organise a prize for those who solve the puzzle.
  • Camp out – just because your kids haven’t gone to summer camp, doesn’t mean you can’t have a summer camp in your own backyard. Pitch a tent, get a fire going and cook up some tasty s’mores. Where the weather doesn’t help, you can always migrate back inside!

Make this summer the most memorable yet!

Outer Banks Vacation: Going Home is Bittersweet

The day had come, we were going home after our week long family vacation in Corolla, NC. You know that bittersweet feeling of finally returning home where you can get back into the normal routine of things? Bitter, because vacation is over, but sweet because you’re happy to be in the comfort of your home again.

Unless you totally despise home. In that case, the end of vacation is probably all bitter. For us, we were ready to get back to focus on our daughter getting over her staph infection. It wasn’t worse, but not better either. On the bright side, she was in good spirits as we woke her up at the break of dawn to cram into our Chrysler Town & Country rental.

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Uncle Paul, Aunt Tammy, and G-Ma were told by a local business owner that the traffic gets backed up worse than someone on a low fiber diet and we should leave before 6 am. We were planning on getting a little more sleep and leaving around 9 am, but didn’t want to challenge the local’s advice.

At just past four in the morning, we started our day loading the van, cleaning around the beach house, and double checking, then triple checking to make sure we didn’t forget anything. Once all was said and done, the family stood outside to say goodbye. Paul, Tammy, Grandma, Aaron, and Noah were driving North back to Pennsylvania, and G-Ma, Kelley, Avery, and I were heading South back to Texas. Aunt Tammy snuck in some goodbye snuggles with Avery who was not quite 100 percent awake.

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These two spent quality bonding time together during the trip. Avery even learned surfer speak from Tammy, she’s been saying “Hang ten, dude.” since we left. My brother Preston and I bid our farewells to cousins Aaron and Noah next.

Brothers and Cousins in OBX Vacation Pic

G-Ma posed with her little brother, aka Uncle Paul, for the last pic before climbing in the van.

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No clue why I don’t have a picture of us with Grandma, but never fear, we gave her lots of love too. We were already behind on leaving before tourist traffic had us sitting forever, so we waved goodbye to our beach house and started the journey to the airport.

Outer Banks Family Vacation Beach House

Sand Piper treated us well, but just ask Dorothy, she knows there’s no place like home. A few pit stops later and we were in Newport News to eat at Whole Foods Market just as we did on our way in.

Everyone made use of the omelette and waffle bar in Whole Foods except me. I had cooked enough awesome local tuna from the night before and expected to chow down on the perfectly cooked, fork tender fish fillet. But fate had other plans; I left the damn thing in the fridge wrapped in foil! Ask anyone, I wasted a good thirty minutes brooding over this unfortunate blip in my memory. Silver lining, Paul and Tammy had packed it and hopefully enjoyed every savory bite.

This time, we had a couple hours to hang around since our flight didn’t depart until 7:05 pm. Yeah, waking up before 5 am for a 7 pm flight is way down on my list of cool things in life. Good thing the shopping center had a small playground.

Avery spent a good hour with non-stop play on the enlarged animals as G-Ma, Preston, and Going Mom visited the surrounding shops. Luckily, G-Ma didn’t show up with another giant pink dolphin.

The cook at Whole Foods had given me a leftover waffle that I said I wanted to give one of the homeless guys walking around the parking lot, so that’s how I spent most of my time before heading to the airport.

Side story: we saw the homeless guy the first day we came in and got worked up when he approached us, cigarette in hand, and asked for money. Uncle Preston really wanted to give him a mouthful, but we never got the chance. No giant waffle for the homeless smoker I guess. We got over it pretty fast.

The trip to the airport only took an hour, and turning in our beloved rental van was easy. This left us with close to four hours of hanging at the Richmond Airport. Sure, plenty of people have to wait much longer, but this is my story, so I’ll whine anyway. And four hours with a toddler feels a lot longer!

For whatever reason, security check found my bag to be of interest which led to me getting searched, full body style. This helped pass some of the time, and luckily they never found whatever they thought they found so I was allowed to pass go……..but I never collected $200. Instead, Avery and I searched for our own money around the airport.

Looking for Money at Airport on way home from OBX

We never found $200, but we did find two pennies. Hey, it’s two of something, right? One was from G-Ma though. I think Avery figured it out.

Waiting at airport with g-ma

For snacking, I unwrapped a giant cucumber I bought at the local farmer’s market and proceeded to share with Avery. Good thing we’re both Nuttzo Fanatics!

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Don’t knock it till you try it. NuttZo + anything is almost guaranteed to be delicious! To make things awkward, an old lady who was working as bartender approached me and asked where I learned to eat a cucumber like that. How do answer a question like that?! My wife just shook her head in shame. Sorry, Kelley.

The time had finally arrived to board our flight for the last part of our journey back home. With all of us in our seats, including Pinky the Dolphin with Avery, we were on our way to DFW.

On plane home from OBX with Pinky the Dolphin

Throughout the day-long adventure, Avery had done surprisingly well at keeping it together. I would’ve lost money if we bet on how long until she broke down. It wasn’t until we walked in the door to our home at close to 11 pm that she finally let the lack of sleep set in. Not helping things was coming home to more potty (pee and poop) stains from our cat all around the house. Kelley frantically dealt with an upset toddler as she cleaned each mess one by one and I prepared a quick meal for everyone.

Stress levels remained high, but it was nice to be home. We all cleaned up, got Avery in her bed, and sat in front of the TV to pass out to HGTV. Wow, what a trip! Vacation was over, but there was more to be done now that we were home, including get rid of Avery’s staph and my looming shoulder surgery.